Go have coffee at the General Store in Exeter and then wander across the road to the cute shop in the wee cottage. Definitely head to Moss Vale and check out the ever growing shopping strip of shops stocking all things handmade. Take some time to go to Dirty Janes in Bowral town and ponder all the etched glass. Have a bunch of share plates for lunch at Ludo and make sure you go for drinks at Bistro Officina (and snack on Taramasalata) before dinner.
Brunch at the Grand Bistro and if you are there longer there is always Bendooley's for great wine and charcuterie and the ever reliable Biota, for modern food and great cocktails.